These aren't my grandfather's Knights of Columbus. And that's a shame!

 
By Marianne Duddy-Burke
When I was younger, the words “Knights of Columbus” conjured up fond images of my grandfather donning his cape and plumed hat to march in a parade, or slipping into his regalia for a special Mass at his parish church. The Knights council helped coordinate an annual festival for people with developmental disabilities and my whole family volunteered. The Knights of Columbus were good guys in my eyes. They raised money for hot meals, warm clothes and wheelchairs for families that could not afford them.
 
Since 2005, the Knights of Columbus has provided more than $15.8 million to the campaign to deprive gay and lesbian people of the right to marry the person whom they love, and to undermine the security of children being raised by same-sex parents. They have made ethically dubious alliances that have brought shame on themselves and our church, and they’ve played the bully with their political and theological opponents.
 
The Knights say they are "one with the church" in their campaign against marriage equality, but that isn’t true. A steady stream of polling demonstrates that most Catholics support marriage equality, and that young Catholics support it overwhelmingly. I don’t know anyone who thinks that our faith justifies soliciting children to publicly vilify their parents, or to turn minority communities against one another.
 
There is a curious duality in the Knights’ thinking, as though the church is “us,” LGBT people are “them,” and all is fair in political combat. But Catholic pews and schools and religious orders are filled with gay and lesbian people, their friends and their families. The Knights have spent millions of dollars that could have been devoted to tending the sick, feeding the hungry and clothing the naked to depriving gay and lesbian people of equal treatment under the law. In the process they are undermining the stability of households led by same-sex parents and jeopardizing the well-being of those couples’ children. You can hang many labels on this kind of behavior, but pro-family is not one of them.
 
I keep thinking back, in the midst of all this, to my father and grandfather and wondering what they would have thought of an organization that was spending so much money and political muscle to marginalize people like me and my wife and to introduce unnecessary uncertainty into the lives of our children. I suspect that they would be disappointed in the way that the Knights have tarnished their reputation to pursue a punitive political agenda, and I know they would have been steadfast in their support for the people whom they love.
 
These aren’t my grandfather’s Knights of Columbus. And that’s a shame.
 
The Washington Post, October 26, 2012
 

2 Comments

Dubious Alliances

In your article you state that the Knights of Columbas have made dubious alliances, but you don't mention, specifically, any of those alliances. I am curious as to what they may be. Do you know the names of those persons or groups to which you refer as dubious?

re: Dubious Alliances

Hi Jimmy,

This is an op-ed that was published after our extensive report on the Knights of Columbus was published, which details many of these alliances. Reading the report (though long) or the executive summary will help - they can both be found on our website. One alliance, for example, is the Knights of Columbus' relationship with the National Organization for Marriage (NOM). Memos have shown that NOM has adopted strategies in the past to turn Black and Hispanic communities against gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people during a campaign to overturn marriage equality in Maine. The memos, unsealed during legal proceedings in Maine, also show NOM used children who had been raised by same-sex couples and persuading them to speak out agains their parents.  Again, more information can be found in the full report or the executive summary.

In peace,
Amelia
Coordinator, Equally Blessed

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